I'd like to remind everyone that this is r/casualconversation. I even got sucked into it there for a bit. I could see having a hoard of thirsty dudes trying to bang you as fast as they possibly can getting old pretty fast.Įdit: Regrettably a good amount of the comments on this post are a fiery-worded debate about the morality of straight people going to gay bars. Due to the novelty it was a good, funny experience, but I totally get why women go to gay bars now. (which is it's own crazy story, I cannot believe LA has legit establishments that you can smoke weed and do cocaine openly INSIDE at). Wound up making it out in one piece and going to some after hours spot with these Russian girls we met there.
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So then I'm talking to these guys and other guys keep coming up trying to talk to me and the guys I was talking to got all snoody like "Don't talk to those losers." One such guy would not go away or stop being too forward, and not in a fun way, so I instinctively told him that my friend, who had come back and was also down to jump on the free drinks train for a while, was my husband (which I have had multiple girls do to me with people who were obviously just friends of theirs at times when I've not taken a hint) so then this dude starts sheepishly grabbing at my ass when he perceived my friend as not looking. I finally asked one of these guys why he wanted to buy me a drink and he said "because I can" so I said "OK" so he asked me what I was drinking and I said anything, he said no what are you drinking so I said whiskey soda, he said what kind of whiskey and I said "well" to which he said "please" and ordered Makers Mark. I tried to talk all suitors out of buying me a drink because I knew what they were after and they wouldn't be happy with the result as I was straight and came there to meet women, that deterred 0%. Guys were COMPETING for the opportunity to buy me a drink, hitting me with pick up lines, walking up like "I love you.", having conversations that went like this "hi" "hi" "where you from?" "san diego" "oh take my number, if you need a place to crash just hit me up." it was NUTS. Then my friend went to the bathroom, leaving me alone. My buddy and I grabbed drinks and surveyed the scene, there were indeed some women and A LOT of well groomed, well dressed, guys walking around, if I hadn't known it was a gay bar I would have thought "wow there's a lot of competition here." I also noticed a lot of people returning my gaze looking around.
I've been to numerous bars with scantily clad female go-go dancers and never thought anything of it, but I bet that for some women that can be terribly intimidating or indicating of an objectifying environment, was an interesting thought. We went and I immediately noticed the go-go dancers, a bunch of lean, muscular, thong clad men dancing on platforms. We decided to go for it and he advised us to go to the Abby. The driver, an Italian guy in his 40's, starts recounting how much ass he used to pull (his words) in West Hollywood and how we should go to West Hollywood and don't worry that it's going to be mostly gay people, they don't bite, and that so many women go out there. 2 weeks ago I went to LA and we parked our car and crushed a 6 pack on the beach in Venice and saw all the craziness go down there, then got in an uber and told the guy to take us to somewhere with a bunch of women.